What You Focus On Grows

Here’s a quote, resource, and affirmation to help power you through the rest of the week. If you enjoy today’s email, pass it along to a friend.

Quote

“If you want to get the best out of a person you must look for the best that is in him.” — Bernard Haldane

Resource - Spotlighting Strengths

Teaching is filled with moments when weaknesses and challenges are loud and obvious. But what happens when we deliberately shift our focus to what’s working? Try this simple strategy:

• In the classroom: Each day, write down one strength you noticed in a student. It could be curiosity, persistence, kindness, or humor. Share it with them directly or in a small note—it can completely change their confidence.
• For yourself: At the end of the day, jot down one strength you brought into your teaching. Maybe it was patience in a tough class, or creativity in how you explained a concept. Recognizing your strengths renews your energy and helps you see your own growth.

This mindset works in relationships outside of school, too. When conflicts arise with family or colleagues, look for the strength behind the struggle. Naming and nurturing that “best” often softens tension and builds connection.

Now Repeat…

I choose to see the strengths in others and in myself. By focusing on the best, I bring out the best.

Journal Prompt

Which student (or colleague) could benefit this week from you noticing and naming their strengths?

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With gratitude.

Jeremy